soft cups are crap

Yesterday was our first day at the pool, so of course I had to dig out my swimsuits and see what fit. Unfortunately the bikini I bought back in February wasn't looking so good so I had to put on my "mom suit" from my last fatty summer. I've already discussed the whole mom suit issue so I'm not getting into that but there is something I haven't touched on - the lack of boob support in swimsuits, especially mom suits. I mean, just when we need it the most there seems to be less padding. I'm sorry, but the whole "soft-cup" bra is a joke. Why don't they call it what it is - a liner so your nipples don't show (which is good so people don't wonder why my stomach has nipples). I need lift! I need something that will keep my breasts from flopping out to the sides and maybe give me some nice cleavage! I think it goes back to the whole "I'm a mom and therefore need to hide as much as my sacred body as possible" thing. Heaven forbid I actually feel attractive while watching my children!